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by Katja Fischer
How to get your child dry
14.5.2019
Translation: machine translated
Toilet training for the little ones is just as important as for the grown-ups. These tips will help you get rid of nappies and (hopefully) keep your child dry.
My colleague Natalie Hemengül wrote an entertaining article on the topic "What I learnt during toilet training". The article got many readers thinking. Me too. Funnily enough, I wasn't thinking about my toilet training, but about getting my daughter dry.
Farewell nappies
I make this decision a few months before her second birthday. Three weeks later, the time has come. She deliberately goes potty. She is now over three years old and manages to stay dry during the day. She's not ready for the night yet.
How do I realise that my child needs or wants to go to the toilet?
Signs
Different signs indicate when a child should or could go to the toilet. Some children go of their own accord, others are encouraged to do so. My little one, for example, often withdrew into a corner, was focussed and didn't make a sound. We gradually introduced her to the potty. Other clues can be:
- The child stands apart
Timing
The earlier you start, the more difficult the transition from nappy to potty will be. Children do not (yet) understand the action and express themselves unclearly. Nevertheless, there are parents who start potty training as soon as the baby can sit.
In my opinion, a good start is when the child is interested in the potty and also recognises that it has wet its nappy. Don't expect too much at the beginning, because the poo is usually already done before you realise it or reach the "Häfi". Be patient and support your child during this weaning phase. At some point, the day will come when you can celebrate your child's first sense of achievement with them.
How do I support getting dry
Small rewards at the beginning
To increase the fun factor, we have added a small reward to the dry spell, for example. Every time she told us she had to go to the toilet and did her business on it, she got a few Smarties. This convinced our chocolate mouse and she clearly enjoyed it.
The right path counts
Many roads lead to Rome. The same goes for getting dry. What worked for our daughter doesn't necessarily work for your child. Find the right way and give it time. Maybe there's a tip here that will help you get your child dry:
- Reward your child or create an incentive (chocolate, figurines, stickers, Duplo bricks,...).
- Love and encourage your child
What to do if there is no toilet nearby
Finally dry and now this: as soon as you've left the house or arrived at the playground, it's "Mum, I have to go to the toilet". Especially in the early stages, it will happen more often that your child urgently needs to go to the toilet even though there isn't one nearby.
As we learnt in Natalie's article above, we should never hold anything back. The body tells us when it needs to go out. Stay patient in these situations and find a suitable place away from your child where they can relieve themselves briefly. Alternatively, takeaway potties are also available.
As different as children are, as different can be the process of becoming dry. Maybe you've already been through it and can give the other parents some more tips. Or do you have another question? Use the comment field. For more tips, tricks and topics relating to babies and toddlers, follow my profile.
I’m the cook, cleaner, police officer, nurse, entertainer, motivator, author, storyteller, coach, organiser, chauffeur, lawyer and judge. To put it simply, I’m a mum to a daughter and not just a (Content) Manager at the office but also at home.
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