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Of unicorns and Riz Casimir: fun, frustration and friendship journals
by Katja Fischer
God darn it, don’t make me do arts and crafts! Especially not without my kid
2.11.2023
Translation: Katherine Martin
Over the course of this article, I’ll be cursing like a sailor and making a fool of myself. Why? Because I’ve been forced to sew together a bizarre stuffed animal for my daughter. Only, she’ll be taking no part in the activity. Here’s why this overwhelming attempt at needlework is my personal idea of hell.
30 adults on kids’ chairs
Don’t question it, just get it done quickly, I think to myself. Around 30 parents then squeeze together around the craft tables, sitting on chairs that are far too small and far too scarce in number. People are cutting, sewing and stuffing, and I valiantly follow suit. At first, anyway.
Fifteen minutes later, I’m on the brink of a nervous breakdown, planning my escape. Gathering up the equipment I need, I say my goodbyes. Beforehand, we’d fortunately been given official permission to finish sewing the soft toy at home. Oh, but do be sure to get it done within a week.
Now, guess what…
Exactly one week later, my daughter comes home from kindergarten with a symbol drawn on her hand. A reminder to her to remind me that I’ve missed the needlework deadline. Dammit!
That same evening, I sit down at the dining table, cursing myself («You’re too daft even to follow these apparently self-explanatory instructions») before giving myself a pep talk («You’ve managed more difficult things than this»). Finally, I remember the words of my own mother («I’m all thumbs when it comes to sewing»). Mum, I feel you! Even as I attempt to whip out my best needlework skills, they’re still atrocious.
At least I get to sit in an adults’ chair now. With an adults’ drink beside me to boot. Cheers!
When it’s time to craft – and when it isn’t
I. Hate. Arts and crafts. That’s no secret. It’s also very much a me problem. Sometimes, I simply have to grin and bear it.
I actually do this from time to time because, ironically, my girls love arts and crafts (where on earth did they get that from?) We draw pictures. We carve pumpkins. We bake Christmas cookies (that counts as crafting in my book, okay?)
I’d even take half a day off work for it. If only this delightful morning of lantern carving didn’t happen to fall on my husband’s childcare day. Sorry, not sorry.
The outcome: a crying child and a wobbly head
In return, I’m the one stuck with the stuffed animal needlework project. On top of the half-hour session at kindergarten, I need another two hours at home to get it finished. Maybe this is just my incompetence talking, but I’m adamant every other parent with average sewing skills must have spent at least an hour on it.
When I finish, I don’t even know what the thing is supposed to be. It looks like a fat elephant with a pointed nose, a floral pattern and a tousled horse’s mane. It just looks like a ...thing. My daughter, however, enlightens me: «That’s the 'I am me', silly!» After googling the children’s book character, I actually do notice some similarities with my elephant horse.
Similarities aside, the kindergarten teacher (who, barring her crafting ambitions, I adore) is likely to look at my daughter’s final product with pity. She’s probably thinking, «Poor child!» And she’s kinda right.
Days later, my daughter comes home in tears. Her «I am me» animal’s head has gone all wobbly. «Mummy, you should have sewn it on better!» she scolds. «I know, my child, I know,» I think to myself. I then insist that this is exactly what it’s supposed to be like. «An animal needs to be able to nod.» Obviously.
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Katja Fischer
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Katja.Fischer@digitecgalaxus.chMom of Anna and Elsa, aperitif expert, group fitness fanatic, aspiring dancer and gossip lover. Often a multitasker and a person who wants it all, sometimes a chocolate chef and queen of the couch.
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