Selbstlos Die Zweifel der modernen Mütter

What makes a good mother? Society presents the image of a woman who can do it all: working mom, entertainer, sexy vamp. This narrative is also fueled by social media, showcasing perfectly staged homes with cheerful, crafty, clean children – shaped by mothers who raise their little ones in a needs-oriented way while looking as flawless as if they had just returned from a two-week wellness retreat.

These expectations are what Sina Schröder has left behind. The mother of four describes the unvarnished truth: moments of failure and doubt, times of impatience, unfairness, or feeling overwhelmed, but also where these toxic expectations come from and how women increasingly lose themselves in the process.

Through case studies from her work as a counselor, as well as her own experiences, she demonstrates that new paths are possible. She emphasizes how essential it is to give oneself space and recognition, and that a courageous "being oneself" is often a better measure than self-sacrificing altruism. Finally, she explains why it is important to be an entirely normal mom, with all her flaws and quirks.

A book for all mothers who know the feeling of having the most beautiful task in the world (namely, supporting our children in finding their own independent path) yet often doubt their inner strength and power.