Romantic Relationships in a Time of 'Cold Intimacies'

The book "Romantic Relationships in a Time of 'Cold Intimacies'" examines the nature of intimacy and relationships in an era characterized by Eva Illouz as "cold intimacies." The contributions in this collection illuminate the ambivalence and tensions associated with the concept of intimacy, revealing a nuanced and complex dynamic in which interpersonal relationships and public space mutually constitute each other. The authors address a variety of topics, including the new conditions of choice, the abundance of partners, social classes, and emotional competence, as well as the specific forms of heartache that can arise from cooled intimacy. The chapters also shed light on the limitations of these theoretical contributions and emphasize the significance of education, violence, poverty, and other material constraints that continue to influence individuals' romantic choices. Overall, this volume offers an interpretation of intimacy that is not only cold but also encompasses practices, desires, and feelings that can be both safe and dangerous, providing comfort while also having the potential to turn into violence.