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Mastering stormy times together

What to do when children no longer want to participate? When there aren't even intense arguments anymore because they completely withdraw, and you feel like you can't reach them at all? Jesper Juul recommends reconsidering your own attitude in such cases. He passionately argues against labeling any child as "difficult" or giving up on them. Even with adolescents who completely deviate from the norm, a genuine dialogue is still possible.

Parents, schools, and everyone involved with children must take on their responsibility instead of passing it on to the children. Even before puberty, a relationship based on equality is essential: When adults present themselves as calm sparring partners, they can reconnect with children and adolescents and guide them through life with trust and empathy.