Kinder brauchen Flügel, keine Helikopter!

Better happy than perfect!

How can parents foster their children's independence and self-confidence without burning out themselves?

Parents often tend to slip into the role of "helicopter parents," wanting to solve every problem for their children. However, the more control is exerted, the more children feel out of control themselves. This can lead to various issues, from tantrums in toddlers to an increased risk of drug and alcohol use in adolescence.

Experienced psychologist Emily Edlynn has developed a proven parenting method to promote children's autonomy while relieving parents. Through practical strategies based on the needs for connection, competence, and independence, parents can find a healthy balance. This approach helps children feel more comfortable and be more successful in adulthood.

Trust yourself and your children! The science-based approach of Autonomy-Supportive Parenting shows you how to empower your children, build a healthy relationship, reduce the risk of burnout, and achieve long-term positive outcomes for the entire family.

"This is a parenting book that will help your children develop as you wish them to. It’s not just useful – it’s a must-read. Even though I had somewhat understood the difference between controlling and autonomy-supportive parenting, the framework has never been laid out so clearly. Edlynn strikes a balance between discussing the big picture and delving into specific contexts and situations, and her suggestions are astonishing. I’ve marked several to refer back to in the future. I will be recommending this book for years to come – it’s one of the best parenting guides I’ve ever read."

• Melinda.