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Sadomasochism has long since freed itself from its grubby image and has become socially acceptable. Especially among couples who want to make their sex life more exciting, this erotic variation is enjoying increasing popularity. If you leave the clichés behind - roaring dominatrix, cheap leather fumble, patent leather boots with endless heels - and dare to take a closer look, there's a lot to discover.BDSM - SM for short - stands for Bondage&Discipline, Dominance&Submission, Sadism&Masochism and summarizes erotic preferences that revolve around power games, dominance and submission, lust pain and bondage. The best way to live this out is with a partner you can trust blindly - literally if necessary -, who you can devote yourself to, who doesn't say no even to unusual things, who you can tell your fantasies to. If SM is practiced the way it should be, with devotion and trust, with sensuality and pleasure, it opens new worlds in the partnership. It conveys knowledge and helps to reduce fear of contact. It is about playing with roles, about eroticism, about devotion and trust, about sensual compulsions and loving exercise of power. The authors Sabine and Wolf Deunan explain the philosophy as well as the basic varieties and practices of SM: bondage techniques and material science, role-playing and its sceneries, the art of dirty talk, the attraction of publicity and chastity games. Further topics are the different variations of fetish and the pleasure of pain (for example in batting games). However, the book is not dry theory, but above all stimulating reading and an invitation to develop and realize your own fantasies.